There’s an interesting book out there that would argue this point called…you probably guessed it…Against Empathy…I’m not saying I agree with the premise but thought I’d mentioned it as you clearly seem like someone who is open-minded enough to at least explore the point of view.

There’s who I THINK I am. There’s who I WANT to be. And there’s who I ACTUALLY am. I’ll be damned if I can figure out which one is which.

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